Category: Living It


  • The Truth About Learning Anarchy. And Hoovering.

    When you hear the term โ€˜anarchyโ€™, what do you think of? Do you think of fire? Maybe flags and scary, black-masked figures throwing Molotov cocktails? That’s the usual picture for most people. So why in the world would I want to associate my Home Ed journey with that image? Come with me, dear reader, on…

  • My Unschooled Kids are More Free than I’ll Ever Be

    I’m having a breakthrough! The mental kind. Not a break-down, a break-through, which can be almost as disturbing to integrate. And I’m excited for this one because it feels like a spiral moment, where everything comes full circle and you jump up to the next level to restart the learning process with your new foundations.…

  • New Stranger Danger Fear Unlocked: Maths Quizzes!

    โ€˜Can U read? R U dum?โ€™ My daughter was asked online when a playmate discovered she is home educated. โ€˜Can you read?โ€™ An off-duty teacher asked my 11-year-old at our local archery club, then – โ€˜Do you have friends?โ€™. The checkout lady at the supermarket declared, โ€˜Poor Thing!โ€™, when my daughter explained why she wasnโ€™t…

  • 6 Toxic Home Ed Myths That Crush Your Courage

    Iโ€™ve heard a lot of questions and statements about Home Education over the years, but some of them come up again and again like bad pennies… A lot of these statements are actually complete rubbish and the ones that make the least sense seem to get repeated most.ย  Let me show you what I mean.…

  • Painful De-Schooling Lessons That Set My Family Free

    De-schooling. If we choose to Home Educate, it happens to the best of us whether we like it or not. You can face it deliberately, or you can realise itโ€™s happened after the fact. Either way, there can be difficult times and emotional wrenches in store as you leave your old ways of thinking behind.…

  • The Number ONE Reason Your Kid Has No Self-Motivation

    Iโ€™ve talked about this a little bit before, but just recently, Iโ€™ve seen more people saying – My child has no self-motivation. Iโ€™d like to Home Educate him/her but I think it would be a constant battle to get them to do thingsโ€ฆ I read this, and I feel sad. I feel sorry for those…

  • Strewing: The Top Secret Home Education Technique You NEED to Know

    Have you heard of strewing? If not, you might need to hear that itโ€™s not something you do to rhubarb, itโ€™s something you do IN your life, FOR your kids. Thereโ€™s a bit of an art to it, and it can make you feel like a total Home-Ed Ninja. Want to come to the strewing…

  • 3 Magic Words That Helped Me Survive Home Educating

    It’s inevitable. If you are a parent, there are going to be times when you are overwhelmed. And if you are a Home Educating parent, well, Iโ€™m sorry to say, there are going to be MORE times like this for you. You have chosen a path less travelled, which can mean uncertainty, extra work, and…

  • Top Home Education Record Keeping Hacks You Need to Know

    As any Local Authority will tell you, if you donโ€™t write down everything your kids are doing, they arenโ€™t actually learning anything. This is why school teachers have ever increasing amounts of paperwork – because itโ€™s been scientifically proven, in a real lab, that children only learn if adults write things down.  Okay, so Iโ€™m…

  • The Dark Side of Trophies and Why Your Kids Deserve Better

    **This is a blog post that was written in 2017. It’s only 8 or 9 years ago, but Wow! – the world has changed massively since this conversation happened. I hadn’t even heard of AI back then, and now it’s already a huge feature in our lives. This makes the theme of this post even…